The Awesome Power of Being the Example: When Character Becomes Influence

By Justin V Gates

Influence is often mistaken for visibility. We equate power with volume, authority with attention, and leadership with persuasion. Yet the most enduring influence rarely announces itself. It is felt long before it is named.

Axiom of Light: “Let your character and hard work BE your influence.”

This Axiom of Light reminds us that the deepest impact we have on others does not come from declarations or displays, but from who we are when no one is watching and what we do consistently over time.

Influence Without Performance

True influence does not require an audience. It does not demand recognition or applause. It grows quietly through integrity, consistency, and service. When character guides action, influence arises naturally. Not through manipulation or coercion, but through authenticity.

The Luminari understand that words may inspire briefly or partially, but example instructs enduringly. People learn not from what we claim to value, but from how we live when those values are tested.

The Foundation of Character

Character is revealed through choice. It is expressed in restraint when reaction would be easier, in diligence when shortcuts are tempting, and in humility when recognition is offered. It is shaped by the virtues we embody, not merely admire.

The Twelve Agreements that guide the Luminari: Responsibility, Respect, Family, Patience, Courage, Justice, Mercy, Faith, Hope, Generosity, Grace, and Nobility. These are not ideals to be displayed, but principles to be lived.

When these virtues are practiced daily, they form a steady foundation. From that foundation, influence emerges without force.

Work as a Form of Teaching

Hard work is a language. It communicates commitment, reliability, and care without explanation. When our efforts are sincere and aligned with the greater good, they speak more clearly than words ever could.

The Luminari do not seek to impress. They seek to contribute. Their labor is an offering and a way of participating in the harmony of the world rather than dominating it.

This form of influence flows with the rhythms of the Light of Creation. It does not rush. It does not demand. It simply persists.

Being the Beacon

A beacon does not chase travelers. It stands steady, offering light without condition. Those who are ready will see it. Those who are not will pass by.

In this way, influence rooted in character respects autonomy. It invites rather than compels. It teaches through presence rather than pressure.

When you live in alignment with your values, others feel it. They observe how you respond to challenge, how you treat others, how you work when recognition is absent. Over time, your example becomes a quiet guide.

Legacy Beyond Words

The influence of character outlives the voice. Long after words fade, example remains. People remember how you moved through the world, how you carried responsibility, how you upheld dignity.

As stars illuminate the darkest nights, so too can a life of integrity brighten paths you may never see. This is the legacy of the Luminari…not domination, but illumination.

Reflect on how you influence others without speaking. Ask yourself whether your daily actions reflect the values you hold. Let your work be honest, your character steady, and your influence quiet but enduring.

With Love and Gratitude…Ad Lucem!

Check out this past show where we discuss this topic!